A Parent's Guide to FaceBook - by Anne Collier and Larry Magid - co-directors of http://www.connectsafely.org


From: http://www.connectsafely.org/Safety-Advice-Articles/facebook-privacy-chart-for-teens.html

Recommended Facebook Privacy Settings for Teens
Facebook's default privacy settings are not for everyone – especially minors – which is why the service allows users to customize their settings. The following chart shows ConnectSafely's recommendations for most teens. We realize that not all teens have the same level of maturity and that not all parents have the same rules for their kids' online socializing, so please review this chart with your teens to help set the right privacy settings for them. For more on Facebook safety and privacy for teens, please see our booklet //A Parents' Guide to Facebook//.
Please note: If you're not already logged into Facebook and you click on a link to Facebook below the Table of Contents, you'll be asked to provide user name and password the first time only. We understand if you're uncomfortable with entering your password after clicking from another Web page (it's a technique used in phishing attacks, but obviously not by us), so if you are uncomfortable, just go to Facebook.com and log in from the home page, then return to this page.
Edit Profile Settings - Basic Information
Setting
Recommendation for teens
Current city
Generally OK
Hometown
Generally OK
Interested In
Leave blank or think about whether the interests you type in reflect positively on you
Looking For
Leave blank
Political Views
Think about how filling this in might affect people’s perception of you and whether it could subject you to bullying
Religious Views
Generally OK, but - as above - filling this in might affect people's perception of you
Bio
Generally OK, but don't go overboard - think about how your info might look to others
Favorite Quotation
Probably OK, but check back in every now and then to see if it still represents you
Profile Picture
An appropriate photo of yourself or an object or cartoon character that represents you; or just leave blank
Relationship Status
Leave blank
Education and Work
Generally OK to list your school. Consider not listing employer
Likes and Interests
(activities, music, books, movies, etc.)
Generally OK but think about what you list, how it will be perceived & whether it will subject you to bullying


Contact Information in Profile
Setting
Recommendation for Teens
Emails
Generally OK, but make available to Friends Only in Customized Privacy Settings
IM Screen Name(s)
Generally OK, but make available to Friends Only in Customized Privacy Settings
Mobile Phone
Leave blank
Other phone
Leave blank
Address/City/Town/Zip and Neighborhood
Leave blank
Website
Generally OK


Basic Privacy Settings
Setting
Recommendation for Teens
Basic Privacy Settings
Friends Only & click "Apply These Settings"


Customized Privacy Settings(Click "Customize settings" at bottom of page.)
Setting
Recommendation
Posts by me
Friends Only
Family
Friends Only
Relationships
Only Me
Interested and looking for
Only Me
Bio and favorite quotations
Friends Only
Website
Friends Only
Religious and political views
Only Me or perhaps Friends Only
Places I check into
Only Me
Include me in “People Here Now” after I check in
Disable

Things Others Share(Click "Customize settings" at bottom of page and scroll to
section in left-hand column below.)
Photos and videos I’m tagged in
Friends Only
Can comment on posts
Friends Only
Friends can post on my Wall
Friends Only
Friends can check me in to Places
Disable
Contact Information
Setting
Recommendation for Teens
Mobile phone
Customize & limit to people they know & trust or “Only Me”
Other phone
Customize & limit to people they know & trust or “Only Me”
Address
Customize & limit to “Only Me”
IM screen name
Friends Only
Email address
Friends Only

Application Privacy Settings
Setting
Recommendation for Teens
Applications you use
Review apps with your kids and remove any that are inappropriate
Info accessible through your friends
Review list. Disable most. Definitely disable "Places I check into"
Game and application activity
Friends Only & customize to even fewer people
Instant personalization
Uncheck “Enable instant personalization on partner website”
Public search
Disable if enabled (for minors, the default is now “Enable when I’m 18”

Block Users and Application & Event Invites from specific user(Click "Block Lists" at bottom of Privacy Settings page.)

Setting
Recommendation for Teens
Instructions

Edit your (block) list
Block any individuals who are annoying you or who you wish to avoid
Block users you wish to avoid. You can also block application and event invites from specific people and block or unblock specific applications from contacting you or using your contact information